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The Fixer 08-01-2008 01:21 PM

Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!

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Originally Posted by ****OnWheels (Post 470522)

I/we do want them soon. Just not financially ready for them. :)

From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. :) We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

foff667 08-01-2008 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by TPI Monte SS (Post 470807)
Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!



From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. :) We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

Thanks! And I totally agree, my wife & I were married in late 00 and finally had our first in early 02'...I was 26 & the wife was 28 at the time I believe. We figured "now is as good a time as ever" and also gave us time to plan out exactly when we want to have baby #2 and if we wanted baby #3.

Genie is pretty young though so she is in a very good position, James on the other hand....









:lol:

foff667 08-01-2008 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by rscamaro73 (Post 470565)
Now's a good time to get snipped ;)

Been well over 3 years for me....no issues :) Had a conversation during the procedure :shock:

Quote:

Originally Posted by jims69camaro (Post 470759)
yeah, me too, until the doc hit a part of the vas-deferens that was not numb... i almost kicked him and the pain was unlike anything i have ever felt before. but it's a good thing to get done. then, even if your swimmers are world class, they can't swim up inside her as the road doesn't go there anymore... [nh accent] can't get theh from he-ah [/nh accent]... :mrgreen:

not only that, but then the libido skyrockets and there is no fear of pregnancy so the sex flows like water... :D :D :D oh, yeah, and it's been ten years for me. zero issues, although she checks for lumps and stuff that shouldn't be there.

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Originally Posted by Untamed (Post 470763)
x3 for being snipped.

Fortunately for me, the attending nurse was cute too. :wink:

Yeah its either her or I, we got a little while to make that decision though.

The Fixer 08-01-2008 01:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by foff667 (Post 470812)
Thanks! And I totally agree, my wife & I were married in late 00 and finally had our first in early 02'...I was 26 & the wife was 28 at the time I believe. We figured "now is as good a time as ever" and also gave us time to plan out exactly when we want to have baby #2 and if we wanted baby #3.

Good deal, that's the way!

Quote:

Originally Posted by foff667
Genie is pretty young though so she is in a very good position, James on the other hand....









:lol:

:rofl: He's almost as old as I am! Hell, it's tough enough chasing a 2-year old at 34. ;) James, you better think about it once you're feeling better!

ShitOnWheels 08-01-2008 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TPI Monte SS (Post 470807)
Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!



From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. :) We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

We would have them now. But as of today I don't have a job. In September I do my internship for my school psychology degree, and I don't get paid. As much as I"m trying to find something to pay the bills, my schedule makes it difficult to find something that will bring in what I was making. If I was still working we'd be starting to try now, literally.

foff667 08-01-2008 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ****OnWheels (Post 470908)
If I was still working we'd be starting to try now, literally.

Slightly too much information :lol:

Yeah I agree if you are a jobless hobo you probably shouldn't be having kids :rofl:


JKING!!!!


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