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Camvill 01-19-2009 05:26 PM

im a dick because i've done this atleast 3 times lol. They always change. u just gotta dig up dirty stuff about her past lol.

wretched73 01-19-2009 05:27 PM

tell his gf that he's gay, or that he's been cheating on her, OR he's gay with you and has been cheating on her with you

Mike 01-19-2009 06:09 PM

Grow up and leave them alone.

sweetbmxrider 01-19-2009 06:22 PM

tell your buddy how you really feel and show him how he has changed and how she owns him. or plant narcotics on the bitch :D

LTb1ow 01-19-2009 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cbrrmike (Post 536091)
Grow up and leave them alone.

+1. Let time work its magic.

CivicEaterLT1 01-19-2009 07:03 PM

pay me to sleep with her then you can take the pics

MonmouthCtyAntz 01-19-2009 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by alamantia (Post 535983)
sleep with his gf ,that seems to work

roflmfao :mrgreen:

Camvill 01-19-2009 07:45 PM

give me her picture ill photoshop her face into some pics

WildBillyT 01-19-2009 08:17 PM

In my opinion:

Tell him she is cheating on him, and that you feel compelled to tell him because he's your friend. If he says fine, whatever, then shut up and leave them alone. You've done your part, and he has been warned. Be serious and don't joke about it.

NjbadSS 01-19-2009 08:33 PM

or just shoot the chick..im sure will break them up..

bcgetfresh 01-19-2009 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Tsar (Post 536041)
wow @ this thread :lol:

^^ what he said :rofl:

91chevywt 01-19-2009 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bcgetfresh (Post 536193)
^^ what he said :rofl:


What they said

I say, if it wasn't meant to be, it'll dwindle out. I think though, if it makes your friend happy, it should kind of make you happy as well. As much as it sucks, most people do get married and need to spend time with their wife, family etc. so it'll happen someday. Maybe you can tell him whats up, and he can make some time for you and his girl when he knows how you feel about the situation.

NastyEllEssWon 01-19-2009 10:33 PM

lol....this sound super familiar.


I lost a very good friend that I've known for over 10 years to a beast of a woman that ruined his life. We tried everything without success. actually proved that she was cheating on him. When we finally did get him to break up with her she sucked him back in within a few weeks by saying ''im pregnant.'' he is now raising a child that isnt his and refuses to take a dna test for his son because ''he knows its his'' even though the conception dates match perfectly with when they were broken up. After all this he REFUSES to take any phone calls from any of the ''group'' that we grew up with.

Moral of the story is....just let him go...let him ruin his life...he's going to anyway.

shane27 01-19-2009 10:36 PM

kick his ass...or least being willing to.

ive been talking to this girl from lit class and she tells me about how her boyfriend is controlling. i told her i will beat him up for her, and she seemed to like that.

NumberTwo 01-19-2009 10:40 PM

So you want to break your buddy and his GF up.

As per post 7 of this thread

Im sorry man, but this is what happens when we mature.
(he used to be the coolest dude but every since like the 1.5 year mark hes been changing his personality around slowly)

cdacda13 01-19-2009 10:45 PM

It happens. Just let it play through. Talking to him would be the most mature way to deal with it.

79CamaroDiva 01-19-2009 10:48 PM

get a girlfriend of your own and realize that most people grow up. Is she cheating on him? Is she doing anything else wrong? After 3 years together they must be doing something right, even if you don't see it.

She cheated on him once and that's messed up enough, but if they worked through it, more power to them

Squirrel 01-19-2009 11:14 PM

Im not reading all the replies...do you want them to break up because you want to nail her?...Im not saying girlfriends arent off limits, but not your friends girl, thats ****ed up

TronsBird 01-19-2009 11:28 PM

alrite,

im 17, same **** happened with my best friend

the only thing that works, is finding something that he'll love doing and will put her aside for once
and i dont mean that will take over his life, but he'll become normal

for my friend, it was smokin 3+ blunts a day
wouldnt really reccomend it, just using it as an example

anyways, he used to be whipped, then me and him started blazing like crazy, and she blamed me for taking over his life, then i got busted

he kept smoking constantly
she ratted him out

now, hes completely back to normal, recently bought a 5spd foxbody(you'd have to know him) with some mods
hes content, he chills with his homies more than her, all is right with the world


so, find an activity that'l make him go ape ****

TronsBird 01-19-2009 11:33 PM

and, getting a gf of your own never hurts if you dont already have one

Kat 01-20-2009 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit88 (Post 536078)
:nod: ;)


Does Tim know? :lol: :eek:

bandit88 01-20-2009 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Kat (Post 536302)
Does Tim know? :lol: :eek:

shhh..... not yet ;) lol
and he doesn't know about us either ;)

BigAls87Z28 01-20-2009 09:24 AM

Best bet is to let it go and let nature take its course. I tried when I was younger and it failed so I sat back and voiala

Mike 01-20-2009 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TronsBird (Post 536251)
alrite,

im 17, same **** happened with my best friend

the only thing that works, is finding something that he'll love doing and will put her aside for once
and i dont mean that will take over his life, but he'll become normal

for my friend, it was smokin 3+ blunts a day
wouldnt really reccomend it, just using it as an example

anyways, he used to be whipped, then me and him started blazing like crazy, and she blamed me for taking over his life, then i got busted

he kept smoking constantly
she ratted him out

now, hes completely back to normal, recently bought a 5spd foxbody(you'd have to know him) with some mods
hes content, he chills with his homies more than her, all is right with the world


so, find an activity that'l make him go ape ****


apparently the original poster isn't the only one that needs some growing up

Tsar 01-20-2009 09:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cbrrmike (Post 536321)
apparently the original poster isn't the only one that needs some growing up

He's 17, of course he needs to grow up :lol:


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