Ahhh yes, the ladder theory 8)

That all depends on how you define nice :D

- Justin

:nod: It's the sad truth but not THAT sad. Think about it, if that link wasn't true we might as well be gay and stop procreating. You know, end of the human race before the next century.

u guys need to stop putting us girls down....yeah im not going to deny the fact that some.. or infact most girls do all that ****.. but there are "nice girls" out there who get taken advantage of and used right back...me being one of them...so it can work both ways...the biggest problem with "guys" is that yous never follow through...suck it up and come up to us!!!!

I'm 'just' a nice guy.

I don't think you know what we're talking about.... we're not putting girls down. We're putting the girls that take advantage of NICE GUYS down. If you're one of those girls then yeah, this thread is a venting session against you :( . Don't think we hate you, it's far from that, it's just some venting. Late summer we had a similar thread against guys that are ********, I think Tim admitted to being one :wink: .
What do you mean never follow through? If you mean flirting and then not asking a girl out... well if you're with a "guy friend" then we have to assume it's your boyfriend.... that's what this thread is about :) . Don't take offence and trust me, none of us guys are doing any hating on girls, just venting.

where did you come from?

ok i gotcha! too bad i wasnt around for the ******* thread! i really could have contributed to that one! about following through...yeah thats what i meant.. you cant assume...if you are interested and you see me flirting back come talk to me!! and if im with a guy dont assume hes my boyfriend...he could be gay! take a chance.. ya never know..

whoa,,, you're a girl?? ;)

8) :lol:

Ok...what are you doing next tuesday?

yes im a girl! is that surprising?

Yes!


:to the background....: "STOP THE PRESS!"

haha, i get a kick out of all of this. Â*not making fun of anyone though. Â*I was in the same boat a while back, all "friend" bs and random relationships that never worked out. Â*anyway, now i have had a gf for the past 10 months, and things are great. Â*Im almost done with her car, the 87 monte ss i built. shes the one that wanted the cowl hood and 5 spd trans, now thats a girl you keep. Â*i'm 24 and shes only 19 so i know things may not become more serious but whatever, i do love her. it goes to show you that things do work out and if they dont they werent meant to be. Â*I see there are a bunch of girls on this board and they got female friends. hell if i was single i'm be at all the meets trying to get to know them and chill with them, sure i can still be friends with them now, but being taken takes alot of fun out of it. lol. Â* the problem i had was i that i was always concerned with what others thought and tried to impress people, then i leaned that its their loss if they dont want me(not to sound conceded lol) ok so that was a bunch of rambling, i'll go away now...

well dont be... girls can be into car 2!!!

I agree with Smoking SS and some of the other guys. Just be yourself...if someone doesn't like you for you, then screw them. I used to try and act the way I thought girls would like me to be back in middle school and high school. Then I got to the point where I realized that wasn't working and I started to despise girls and I started being myself towards the end of high school and into college. I'll tell you what....it was like the magic formula. I met tons of girls after that. Be confident in who YOU are and the right girls will come along, including if you're a nice guy. I had a 5 1/2 year relationship before this one that was pretty damn good, but not perfect. Now I'm in a new relationship that's been great for 9 months. But beware....if things go sour ever I've seen more than a few potential prospects in this club :wink:

Oh and one last thing....for guys who are worried about girls being out with a guy....if you can't tell for sure he's a boyfriend he's probably not. And either way, just hit the gym and then start enforcing "The Rule" For those of you who don't know what the rule is- If you see a girl with a guy and you can beat him up, she has to come home with you.

:wink:

She finally stepped out of the "Nothing, Nevermind" thread in Central Jersey......

- Justin

I figured it out last night and looked through that thread.

i wasn't surprised.............;)

ionly joined b/c that thread was about me!are you tryin to say you want me to disappear??? :(

no one wants you to dissapear.....if they do they dont belong in the "nice guys" thread

aww thanks... i feel wanted..and i highly doubt all these guys are really "nice" guys... and what girl wants only a "nice" guy? there needs to be an inner bad boy 2:naughty:

maybe you should read that ladder theory link :lol:

:nod: lol

Paul, "the rule" that's a good one!

ok..im def. blonde and i dont get the ladder theory..some 1 needs to explain it to me.. that way i kno whether to thank you or tell you off.. b/c im seeing a lot anout whores and **** on those pages..please help me understand :(