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JL8Jeff 11-14-2005 02:08 PM

What is wrong with kids nowadays!
 
What was that kid in PA thinking he was going to accomplish by shooting his "girlfriend's" parents and taking her? Heck, he was gonna shoot her younger sister too but she ran and hid! Is it tv, video games, the news? This is just ridiculous! And he's 18 and dating a 14 year old???

ar0ck 11-14-2005 02:11 PM

Actually I was driving through PA flipping through their crappy stations, when they put out the Amber Alert in the area that I was in. They explained the whole story. Its pretty ****ed up. I was on the look out for the car the entire trip though too!

Savage_Messiah 11-14-2005 03:58 PM

what a damn moron

NJSPEEDER 11-14-2005 04:03 PM

it is parenting and leadeship. face it, most kids today grow up watching tv and idolizing sports stars. if parents woudl be invovled, if teachers were allowed to get clsoe enough to act like they care(many teachers i know live in fear of getting too close and having a parent complain/sue and cost them the job they love), or if kids were encouraged to get together in community groups instead of on community street corners we could avoid 99% of this ****.
it isn't video games or tv or anything liek that. when i was a kid they were still allowed to show wiley coyote hitting the canyon floor and having teh boulder land on him, it never inspired me or my friends to try it, so i have a hard time believing that it is the cause of kids problems today.[/rant]

12secondv6 11-14-2005 04:18 PM

<--- agrees w/ tim 100%

Tsar 11-14-2005 04:33 PM

they're all emo

slasherbarb 11-14-2005 04:43 PM

if that was my kid he'd get a shift kick in the ass every time he acted up...parents are too afraid to discipline kids today

Tsar 11-14-2005 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by slasherbarb
if that was my kid he'd get a shift kick in the ass every time he acted up...parents are too afraid to discipline kids today

their kids can prolly sue them :lol:

V 11-14-2005 05:18 PM

i dunno about kids today, but i was raised right, i never caused big problems or had temper tantrums, i was polite and respected others. Its all how parents treat the kids i believe, if you hit a kid alot, yeah its "teaching" them what they did was wrong but makes them grow up thinking pain/huirting is ok sometimes. If i remember correctly, i was maybe spanked once or twice, but never hit with a belt or stuff like that. And see, i didnt turn out as a criminal(not counting the JV weapons poss.) lol. mainly i think its beacuse parent sjust dont spend enough time with their kids, its all about both parents having jobs, latchkey kids, and afterschool activitives, almost like people have kids without realizing they need to devote time to them....i dunno..this world is going to hell.

qwikz28 11-14-2005 05:24 PM

i think its the american lifestyle of working a million hours a week and never having time for your kids. i seem to notice the troublesome/depressed kids mostly come from busy parents.

JL8Jeff 11-14-2005 05:29 PM

I agree that most of the time the parents have no clue what's going on because they're too absorbed in their own work. But I still wonder if the level of violence on tv, the news, the movies, the internet has gotten to the point that kids think it's no big deal to pull out a gun and shoot somebody. It's like they're becoming numb to what's wrong and right.

Tsar 11-14-2005 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by qwikz28
i think its the american lifestyle of working a million hours a week and never having time for your kids. i seem to notice the troublesome/depressed kids mostly come from busy parents.

I cant accept that as an excuse. I was born when my mom was 18 years old. Sure it was prolly tough to raise me, since she had a job went to school, and looked after me because my grandmother didnt want to help out at all. **** she didnt even want me to be born. But i've turned out somewhat decent, besides being an ******* on occasion, i dont go and shoot people just because they did something bad to me. I can tell you lots of bad childhood stories but none of them have made me into a phycho or a killer.

Tsar 11-14-2005 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by JL8Jeff
I agree that most of the time the parents have no clue what's going on because they're too absorbed in their own work. But I still wonder if the level of violence on tv, the news, the movies, the internet has gotten to the point that kids think it's no big deal to pull out a gun and shoot somebody. It's like they're becoming numb to what's wrong and right.

You cant blame everything on the parents. Kids gotta realize right from wrong no matter what. If you have anywhere close to having an average IQ you gotta know that pulling a gun on a person will land in some serious ****.

NJSPEEDER 11-14-2005 05:34 PM

face it, we live in a society that scape goats all of it's problems onto outside sources. kid doesnt' know how to act in public, parents blame a tv show. but tell me, where were they while the kid was watching the show? did they sit down and say that the shwo wasnt' depicting teh right way to act? did they disallow their child from watching it? no, they instead sue teh cable company for a million bucks cause beavis and butthead talked about fire and an unattended 5year old, who had started several fires before, burns the trailer down.

qwikz28 11-14-2005 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Tsar
I cant accept that as an excuse. I was born when my mom was 18 years old. Sure it was prolly tough to raise me, since she had a job went to school, and looked after me because my grandmother didnt want to help out at all. **** she didnt even want me to be born. But i've turned out somewhat decent, besides being an ******* on occasion, i dont go and shoot people just because they did something bad to me. I can tell you lots of bad childhood stories but none of them have made me into a phycho or a killer.

theres an exception to every rule. my father worked ridiculous hours and still does. that doesnt mean i dont know how to be a man.


kids these days need Jesus.

bitchincamaro 11-14-2005 06:37 PM

no respect i tell ya, no respect

IROCZBeast 11-14-2005 06:47 PM

I see it everyday. The problem is no respect, that is the major problem. If these kids don't respect their own parents how can you expect them to respect anyone else in society. A little fear in all of us is good. Growing up most of us realized there were severe consiquences for our actions if we messed up or did somethign wrong. Nowadays it seems like there is a way out of everything for everyone. They don't think about the future or what could happen next.

All I can say is there are going to be a lot of McDonald workers in the future.

Common sense is also a big problem nowadays. For example someone sueing McDonalds for spilling her coffee on her and burning herself. She calmed there should be a warning label on it. People sueing fast food joints cause them claim it made them fat. Last I checked no one puts gun to your head to eat there. Lets face it common sense is dead.

R.I.P. Common Sense

Tsar 11-14-2005 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by IROCZBeast
I see it everyday. The problem is no respect, that is the major problem. If these kids don't respect their own parents how can you expect them to respect anyone else in society. A little fear in all of us is good. Growing up most of us realized there were severe consiquences for our actions if we messed up or did somethign wrong. Nowadays it seems like there is a way out of everything for everyone. They don't think about the future or what could happen next.

All I can say is there are going to be a lot of McDonald workers in the future.

Common sense is also a big problem nowadays. For example someone sueing McDonalds for spilling her coffee on her and burning herself. She calmed there should be a warning label on it. People sueing fast food joints cause them claim it made them fat. Last I checked no one puts gun to your head to eat there. Lets face it common sense is dead.

R.I.P. Common Sense

We can always use more burger flippers! i like my service fast!

Savage_Messiah 11-14-2005 06:56 PM

I'm with tim, james, and paul

Ian 11-14-2005 07:05 PM

No respect is a big reason for the crap that goes on. another reason is the kids these days dont feel guilt. I know when I was younger and my mom was mad at me, I felt so guilty that it would nearly drive me to tears. the last thing I wanted to do was get my parents upset. Why? because that feeling of guilt was awful! that combined with the respect I had for them kept me in line even when they weren't around.

Peer pressure was another thing I didnt have any trouble with, again, because i didnt want to piss my parents off.

I also think that the youth of today, for some reason, feels that life should be fair. Life is not fair, it never was fair and it never will be fair...ADJUST! No one leads a story book life with a fairy tale ending, thats why they're called fairy tales. Fairys dont exist and neither do those kinds of lives. But kids still seem to think that they deserve better. Guess what junior? you dont deserve better because you arent doing anything positive to warrant that kind of life. Even the people that do break their backs working and giving their all to make things comfortable for their family dont get the respect they deserve. god damn kids! they want everything ten minutes ago and when they dont get it, they think everyone is trying to bring them down. I'm just glad I'm not a violent guy, otherwise I probably would have gotten into a lot of fights in high school. :lol:

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Tsar 11-14-2005 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ian
No respect is a big reason for the crap that goes on. another reason is the kids these days dont feel guilt. I know when I was younger and my mom was mad at me, I felt so guilty that it would nearly drive me to tears. the last thing I wanted to do was get my parents upset. Why? because that feeling of guilt was awful! that combined with the respect I had for them kept me in line even when they weren't around.

Peer pressure was another thing I didnt have any trouble with, again, because i didnt want to piss my parents off.

I also think that the youth of today, for some reason, feels that life should be fair. Life is not fair, it never was fair and it never will be fair...ADJUST! No one leads a story book life with a fairy tale ending, thats why they're called fairy tales. Fairys dont exist and neither do those kinds of lives. But kids still seem to think that they deserve better. Guess what junior? you dont deserve better because you arent doing anything positive to warrant that kind of life. Even the people that do break their backs working and giving their all to make things comfortable for their family dont get the respect they deserve. god damn kids! they want everything ten minutes ago and when they dont get it, they think everyone is trying to bring them down. I'm just glad I'm not a violent guy, otherwise I probably would have gotten into a lot of fights in high school. :lol:

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what got your panties in a wad? :lol:

Ian 11-14-2005 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Tsar
what got your panties in a wad? :lol:

I hate kids:D

PBodyGT87 11-14-2005 07:14 PM

they caught the kid, and the girl is now safe.

Tsar 11-14-2005 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ian
I hate kids:D

good answer :lol:

Savage_Messiah 11-14-2005 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Ian
Fairys dont exist

Yes they do! Alex is living proof! :lol:

But I agree with you over the whole "fairness" issue, same thing Tim was talking about with teachers.

People need to WAKE THE **** UP and realize that life won't cater to them. Sometimes I wish stupidity and conceitedness were punishable by death :mad:


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