Ignore Valentines Day. Enjoy your hobbies, your freedom and your friends. Don't dwell over not having a girlfriend / fiance' / wife. February 14th is just another day for most people. For those of us who are married, its even more money poured into something other than a fun hobby.
Quit yer bitchin and just order the next bolt-on for your car as a consolation gift. In the long run, you're better off.
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I USED TO HAVE an 85 Camaro 305 4bbl, 90 Firebird V6, 97 Firebird V6 (10 speakers!). Despite the two family vehicles, 3 kids, wife and mortgage, I can finally realize the dream - 88 TA almost all stock... for now.
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Wanted this -

, but ended up with this -

for free. Can't argue with free.