The ones who stick around the longest, and eventually become wife material, are those who have more in common with you than school and a bed. Maybe I'm old school, but judging a relationship on how fast you have sex won't lead to any lasting relationships. Make sure you have similar interests, but enough differences so that she WANTS to spend a little time away from you. Both the similar interests, and occasional need for space, are very important.
Take 5 weeks to get to know a little about her, then another 5 weeks to work up the courage to introduce her to your friends. If she survives those, she's a keeper. If not, you've just lost time and a little money. You'll know shes into you more when she intros you to her friends, because thats when you really learn all about her.
Thus endeth the lesson.
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