[its Jeanne-Marie]

look, i'm not trying to start problems between anyone. it's just that i'm tired of you always making fun of what we're doing.. like all of us going out together on a friday night instead of getting trashed, or even just about having to watch ted's brother tonight. it's not like we're inconveniencing you at all by not going out, it was our choice to stay home. my point about you posting in threads about going out with the group is not to say that you should not post in a public forum...the point is, if you have all these wonderful plans of getting drunk all the time, why are you taking time out of your schedule to criticize us?

also, ted is not sticking up for me because i can't handle things myself. you're right, i'm a big girl and can take care of myself. but he also has his own brain and maybe he feels the same way as i do and i know a couple of others do.

again, i'm not trying to make you feel like crap, just saying that because we are lucky enough to have this public forum, unnecessary putdowns are just not needed.