i dunno about kids today, but i was raised right, i never caused big problems or had temper tantrums, i was polite and respected others. Its all how parents treat the kids i believe, if you hit a kid alot, yeah its "teaching" them what they did was wrong but makes them grow up thinking pain/huirting is ok sometimes. If i remember correctly, i was maybe spanked once or twice, but never hit with a belt or stuff like that. And see, i didnt turn out as a criminal(not counting the JV weapons poss.) lol. mainly i think its beacuse parent sjust dont spend enough time with their kids, its all about both parents having jobs, latchkey kids, and afterschool activitives, almost like people have kids without realizing they need to devote time to them....i dunno..this world is going to hell.
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