How many of you that say your car/bike/whatever come before any woman are actually married/engaged/in a serious committed relationship? How many have had a serious relationship last more than 6 months? I'm going to guess very few.
The woman should come first (assuming she is worth it - if she's just a ***** buddy or a hold-me-over-til-I-find-someone-else, then whatever). This is what made a couple of my relationships fail, as I was always the back up plan.
Priorities people. Hence why James is now my fiance, as his priorities were straight from the moment we started dating.
And I don't mean throw the hobby away once you meet that perfect woman...but the woman should come first.
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