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Originally Posted by Untamed
Enjoy the two months then break cleanly before you ship out. Last thing you want when you're overseas is all kinds of crap messing with your mind. Hopefully you two will get what you want outta the short time you have.
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^ werd, best advice i see in this thread.
how long are you going to be overseas? or dont u know? (not overly familiar with the services) point is, she's gonna be a freshman in college, ur gonna be 10,000 miles away and if my math serves me correctly u'll have been with her 2-3 months at the time u ship out. the likelyhood of something going sideways before u get home is extremely high. of course i dont know her or u very well at all so i could be completely off base, but all i can think about is that movie jarhead. and it just makes sense that when ur over there concentrating on keeping u and your fellow servicemen alive, the last thing u want is the permeating distraction of wondering where she is, who she's talkin to, what she's doing, and obviously if she's still being faithful.
i gotta agree with untamed here. and hey, if u do break cleanly u can always rekindle the rela when u get home. good luck the decision bro and thank u for your service.