Update: I got home today and saw nothing by the door and I was mad. So I thought F-it and I called that cell number I found on TGO that he posted in a thread some time ago. He answered and I told him who I was and told him I still haven't received the part or the tracking #. He was surprised and said he shipped it out Friday and checked his computer and apparently never got the e-mail I sent him or the tracking info. So he told me he'd go to "going Postal" and find out whats going on and call me back. I get a call back that apparently "Going Postal" went out of business late Friday and the chin spoiler was never shipped. So he now has it. He went to UPS and they quoted him $100 to box and ship it and he even said that that was ridiculous. FedEx quoted online a $50 box/ship but he doesn't know where the closest one is to him. I just spoke to him again and he's going to go to USPS tomorrow morning and see if their $23 online shipping quote is accurate or if it'll be a lot more due to its size and then call me with info. If it's too much to ship we're going to just meet halfway and I'll get the part. Oh and BTW, he's definitely 16 or 17. He's a nice guy, just really Pennsylvanian
He was even telling me how he wants to get the part to me ASAP so I'm glad I called him. Seems to be no fraud, just a huge mess. Thanks again for all your support, I'll keep you guys updated.