yeah, girls in bikinis definitely bring out the
talk it over with your shop. get an estimate, if nothing else, from your shop and at least two others. get everything in writing. i mean it, everything. take their word at nothing, because if it's not in writing, then they don't have to do it. since they're in the business, they know little things like this and that, and it might save them time and expense, but it might cost you now or down the road.
definitely get your insurance involved. it doesn't matter, since it was obviously her fault, but your insurance is there for YOU, not her, and they will help YOU. so keep them in the loop - they also do this kind of stuff everyday, and could give you a heads up if things don't look or sound right.
good luck, man. it seems like those cars that have the wildest paint jobs, the ones you can't just hit with a touch-up brush and buff it, are the ones that get hit. if it is indeed non-structural like you say, then they should be able to bang it out in a day or two, depending on parts availability. a week, tops.