welcome to the site I'm thirtyxoduvoaimsthing, and I had the same issue as you when I came here with some people just being ignorant asses. They were able to drive faster then anyone, get anywhere in the world with out a gps or a map, knew everything and it got old real fast.
Now I don't have boobs so I didn't get the whole eeeww it's a girl trying to be an attention whore thing, but what ever. Ignore the knuckleheads use the ignore button it's great. Just says the person is on your ignore list and won't show their posts.
As for the majority of the people here they are ok. Just beware the leg humpers. I've officially hung up my leg humping badge when i got married, but there are plenty of others here.