Don't refund it. He should understand if you can't do it. Theres no way to tell if it's damaged. He could have dropped it or who knows what else. Plus, if he ships it back to you it might get wrapped up in the crappiest box with no cushioning.
Any store that sells electronics doesn't refund, there should be no reason for you to either. Just too many things that could go wrong.
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