I'm down for whatever. If you guys want to meet up earlier, we could grab a bite at a restaurant then head over as a group at 9 when it was supposed to be. If it's empty, nothing lost, already had our own festivities. If other cars are there, cool, just got food & now meet with other cars.
I'm only suggesting all this because it's so close to me, so I can do whatever option works for everyone else.
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Me and Anthony (MyFirstZ) are both coming from the same direction, and are 20 mins from Paramus. You're up the street. I'm not sure of 86BlackBetty's location, but it says "North Jersey," so I don't think he's too far. And FFB said he needs to come up to grab the bottle from your house anyway. I'd just check with Taylor and Adam and see if they want to come up for wings & perhaps evening festivities--and maybe a car meet!