We often wonder who or what controls our daily lives. Can we cope with the outcome and the stress of what is dealt to us
? Does it make us stronger or weaker dealing with the unknown? Try to look for any steps in the positive direction, no matter how small, and try to realize that we may have to prepare ourselves for a future without someone we love, but that they may be going to a better place where there is no more pain or suffering. God bless you and your wife and hope for the best.