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madness410 · 04-24-2009, 05:02 PM

ok in my last thread

http://www.njfboa.org/forums/showthread.php?t=41840

same girl, breaks up with her boyfriend. again...calls me. again. however, this time 25% of the time she was venting about her boyfriend, 75% of the time she was having regular conversation pertaining to me. move in for a kill?

meanwhile the DTF south jersey girl is texting me while im on the phone with IDKDTF break up girl. so im like

kill? or no kill.

if kill, how do i go about this as their break up is fresh and is still emotional.

Featherburner · 04-24-2009, 05:03 PM

Run far and fast! Well, hit it first.

Tsar · 04-24-2009, 05:04 PM

This sounds like High School.. *facepalm*

madness410 · 04-24-2009, 05:08 PM

im new to the rebound gonch idk how to go about it

BonzoHansen · 04-24-2009, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Featherburner

Run far and fast! Well, hit it first.

Roflmao

SupermanX24 · 04-24-2009, 06:21 PM

just hit it and quit it

NastyEllEssWon · 04-24-2009, 06:26 PM

be the in between guy. hit it a few times, deal with a few tears...send her on her way to look for a new boyfriend

maroman88 · 04-24-2009, 06:47 PM

hit both as hard and as long as possible

madness410 · 04-24-2009, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by maroman88

hit both as hard and as long as possible

not a bad idea

jims69camaro · 04-24-2009, 08:50 PM

i can't figure out why you didn't run and hide after the last time. there is no future with this girl. let me repeat that for the hearing impaired: there is no future with this girl.

there is no right way to hit rebound gonch - you just hit it and run. change your phone number. move to another state. nah, let her move. just ignore her afterwards. if you call her after hitting it, you give her power over you. if she's a willing partner, then get it on. move on with life. whatever you do, just don't post about it. if someone wants details, then their life is worse than yours. j/k.

Mike · 04-24-2009, 11:19 PM

stop posting these stupid ass myspace threads

madness410 · 04-25-2009, 12:56 AM

nah ur right for some reason i must have been really bored earlier

NJ Torque · 04-25-2009, 01:41 AM

threesome, no?

V · 04-25-2009, 03:46 AM

plain and simple... ur the guy she feels comfortable around, to vent to and trusts, you're THAT guy. meaning, you basically aint got a shot, thats life. call the dtf girl and work that. 'nuff said

98tadriver · 04-25-2009, 03:59 AM

THIS IS MADNESS! lol

Option A: nail the dtf chick and tell the girl to call somebody else.

any girls that dont seem dtf but bother me with txts, calls, etc i simply tell them to leave me alone, i dont want to hear it, we both want different things it wont work. you get the idea. i make it very clear to them

Option B: Buy 100' of garden hose and a roll of duct tape from home depot. then, plug one end into your exhaust pipe and run the other end into her bedroom

LTb1ow · 04-25-2009, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted by 98tadriver

Option B: Buy 100' of garden hose and a roll of duct tape from home depot. then, plug one end into your exhaust pipe and run the other end into her bedroom

His car would overheat before shes done.

79CamaroDiva · 04-25-2009, 09:07 AM

Really? So girls that aren't "dtf" (this is a new one by me, but whatever) have no reason to exist, but those that are, are far too easy to actually carry out a relationship with?

Got it. And so glad I'm at least 5 years older and graduated well before this high school sht invaded community colleges everywhere.

04-25-2009, 09:21 AM

some people don't want relationships so why would they chill with a girl who's not dtf? Ps I think were all long out of highschool

Tsar · 04-25-2009, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by 86Formula

some people don't want relationships so why would they chill with a girl who's not dtf? Ps I think were all long out of highschool

Technically speaking sure. Mentally, not so much.

98tadriver · 04-25-2009, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by 86Formula

some people don't want relationships so why would they chill with a girl who's not dtf? Ps I think were all long out of highschool

Exactly my point.

and just so im clear with people and they dont think im immature or a creep or w/e lol-

Im not going to intentionally lead a girl on or lie to her to get in her pants bc she wont put out unless shes in a relationship. I wouldnt lower myself to that level. If the girl wants a relationship and i dont, im gonna be honest with her and that saves ourselves a bunch of wasted time. There are many girls out there who just want "friends with benefits"

CamVette7577 · 04-25-2009, 12:02 PM

"Yawninggggg".... To much thought into to much drama... If you like drama .. Keep entertaining it... Nuff said ... Enjoy the weather all!!

TheBandit · 04-25-2009, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by CamVette7577

"Yawninggggg".... To much thought into to much drama... If you like drama .. Keep entertaining it... Nuff said ... Enjoy the weather all!!

This.

V · 04-25-2009, 12:55 PM

i like pudding cups

BigAls87Z28 · 04-25-2009, 03:03 PM

Meh, just have fun. The rebound chick is looking for rebound sex, so do what you must.
The DTF girl, if thats all she wants (which by the sound of your other thread, isnt) is to have fun, then you have two womens you should be having sexual encounters with, but you are on the internet talking about it.

98tadriver · 04-27-2009, 01:51 AM

hit the emotional one from behind and fish hook her while doing so