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View Poll Results: is a lap dance cheating?
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yes cheating..
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No, just harmless fun, somethin all guys just do
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11-28-2006, 01:29 PM
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what happens at strip clubs stays at strip clubs 
and no it isn't cheating. and if she still gets pissed off then make her ass give you a lap dance and then some!
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11-28-2006, 01:46 PM
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dude just ****in go to the strip club and have some ****in rando slam pig rub up on your **** for a while... then go home and slam your girlfriend... end of story
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11-28-2006, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by baddest434
what happens at strip clubs stays at strip clubs |
Just watch out for glitter & stripper stink.
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11-28-2006, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted by BonzoHansen
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Originally Posted by baddest434
what happens at strip clubs stays at strip clubs |
Just watch out for glitter & stripper stink. |
stripper stink FTMFW 
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11-28-2006, 04:59 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by baddest434
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Originally Posted by BonzoHansen
Just watch out for glitter & stripper stink.
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stripper stink FTMFW |
dirty old man
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11-30-2006, 10:30 PM
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I've never been to a strip club, but I would not consider getting a lap dance cheating. If she's really against the whole thing, thats your call. if it just seems like she's hesitant about the whole situation, reassure her that you lover her and you'll be back around 3 am
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and 1 more smart ass answer by you and i'm going to reach into this monitor and grab you by the throat
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12-01-2006, 02:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Ian
I've never been to a strip club
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12-01-2006, 06:55 AM
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I've never been to a strip club....:
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We could probably fix that, you know, if we did that kind of thing, which of course we don't...
...so when? 
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Last edited by BonzoHansen; 12-01-2006 at 06:56 AM.
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12-01-2006, 08:30 AM
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wow ian whats wrong with u?
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12-01-2006, 05:00 PM
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Not cheating. Tell her to chill. Epecially if you trust her enough to go see male strippers. Mutual respect my friend!!! 
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12-01-2006, 05:26 PM
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wow ian whats wrong with u?
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I just never got around to it?
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and 1 more smart ass answer by you and i'm going to reach into this monitor and grab you by the throat
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12-01-2006, 10:42 PM
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If you have to question it somethings wrong. If she trusts you she shouldn't need to worry about you.
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12-01-2006, 10:55 PM
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If you have to question it somethings wrong. If she trusts you she shouldn't need to worry about you.
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thats what i said earlier in the thread. the problem is with you if you need to go to another girl for happiness.
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12-02-2006, 12:17 AM
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no one ever said he was unhappy with his girlfriend. he just said he wanted a lap dance because he's never had one. last time I checked, no one ever went to jail for going to a strip club and getting a lap dance.
again, its entirely his call, but if he has never had one, he might as well get one. its not cheating, he's still gonna go home to the same girl he did the night before, I dont see a problem with it.
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and 1 more smart ass answer by you and i'm going to reach into this monitor and grab you by the throat
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12-04-2006, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Ian
no one ever said he was unhappy with his girlfriend. he just said he wanted a lap dance because he's never had one. last time I checked, no one ever went to jail for going to a strip club and getting a lap dance.
again, its entirely his call, but if he has never had one, he might as well get one. its not cheating, he's still gonna go home to the same girl he did the night before, I dont see a problem with it.
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no, no one said he was unhappy with her, but an inference was drawn... if he has to see someone else take their clothes off, then there must be something wrong with his relationship with the current woman. or, more specifically, knowing it's something that she is against, and wanting to do it anyway, just because he has never done it before, then there is a problem in the relationship (moreso with him than the relationship, i would think). or, just the fact that he is asking if this is something the majority of people think is ok so he can justify it in his own mind, should he go, then there are underlying problems.
and just because it is not against the law doesn't mean it's not morally or ethically wrong. there are many things that are not against the law but you don't do them because of morals or ethics, whether they be personal or business, etc.
obviously, if he wants the relationship to work then it's not just "his call". he needs to take her feelings into account, and not just how much **** he is going to catch when she finds out he went against her wishes. it's like telling someone that it would hurt you if they went and did a particular something, and then without another thought you go and do that particular something. you know it's going to hurt them, but you do it anyway?
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12-04-2006, 12:34 PM
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I dont see what the big deal is, but then again I've never been to a strip club so I'm probably not the best person to ask
Jim, you're right that you shouldn't have to go to a strip club if you're in a relationship, but its obvious that he wants to go.
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and 1 more smart ass answer by you and i'm going to reach into this monitor and grab you by the throat
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12-04-2006, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by jims69camaro
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Originally Posted by Ian
no one ever said he was unhappy with his girlfriend. he just said he wanted a lap dance because he's never had one. last time I checked, no one ever went to jail for going to a strip club and getting a lap dance.
again, its entirely his call, but if he has never had one, he might as well get one. its not cheating, he's still gonna go home to the same girl he did the night before, I dont see a problem with it.
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no, no one said he was unhappy with her, but an inference was drawn... if he has to see someone else take their clothes off, then there must be something wrong with his relationship with the current woman. or, more specifically, knowing it's something that she is against, and wanting to do it anyway, just because he has never done it before, then there is a problem in the relationship (moreso with him than the relationship, i would think). or, just the fact that he is asking if this is something the majority of people think is ok so he can justify it in his own mind, should he go, then there are underlying problems.
and just because it is not against the law doesn't mean it's not morally or ethically wrong. there are many things that are not against the law but you don't do them because of morals or ethics, whether they be personal or business, etc.
obviously, if he wants the relationship to work then it's not just "his call". he needs to take her feelings into account, and not just how much **** he is going to catch when she finds out he went against her wishes. it's like telling someone that it would hurt you if they went and did a particular something, and then without another thought you go and do that particular something. you know it's going to hurt them, but you do it anyway? |
Eh, I have to disagree. I wouldn't mind going to a male review club because I have yet to do it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with my relationship, we are very much happy, very much engaged, very much in love etc etc. It's debateable whether there is anything wrong with me, but it has nothing to do with this topic!
I see it the same as some others have said..."pants zipped, hands off, and nothing else happens", then it's not cheating.
Yes, he must take into account her wishes, and decide whether it's worth it in the end to go against them (is the reward greater than the risk of losing her?), but just because he's asking, doesn't mean there is something wrong with the relationship or him. It just means he wants to do something, found out his girl disapproves of the situation, and is asking if others feel the same way. Then he can go back and continue having a discussion, having some evidence to back him up. Rather than him say "But EVERYONE else does it" without any evidence, he can say "Look, a few of my buddies agree with me...some also agree with you. let's discuss it and see what can come of it." IF she still says no, he's best to heed her wishes.
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12-05-2006, 05:55 AM
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12-11-2006, 05:28 PM
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I propose a NJFBOA sponsored strip club trip to break some of these strip club cherries we have here.
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Last edited by Little G; 12-11-2006 at 05:29 PM.
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12-12-2006, 01:37 PM
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Why not get your girlfriend to go to the strip club with you,....and get a lapdance together?? That is both hot, and entertaining. 
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12-12-2006, 08:46 PM
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Why not get your girlfriend to go to the strip club with you,....and get a lapdance together?? That is both hot, and entertaining. |
ive done it but not with a gf. its ok. the strippers kinda avoided us at first
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12-12-2006, 08:53 PM
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I've never been to a strip club. It's a waste of $$. Let's spend crazy money on a skank whore that you can't touch. Sounds like fun to me..sign me up.
With that said...do I think it's cheating? Nope. However, IMO, it's ****** and disrespectful to go to a strip joint while in a relationship, ESPECIALLY if you supposedly love your girl.
You have to ask yourself this question. What's more important? A lap dance that amounts to nothing or the trust and love of your girl? To me it's a no brainer.
Good luck
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12-12-2006, 09:58 PM
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I can just picture you dorks at a strip club for your first time.
NJFBOAian: So- have I mentioned I drive an fbody?
Stripper: *stares blankly*
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12-12-2006, 10:16 PM
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I can just picture you dorks at a strip club for your first time.
NJFBOAian: So- have I mentioned I drive an fbody?
Stripper: *stares blankly*
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 you forgot the part where they try to impress her by telling her about the size of their cam shaft
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dumbass.
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12-13-2006, 12:57 AM
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I've never been to a strip club. It's a waste of $$. Let's spend crazy money on a skank whore that you can't touch. Sounds like fun to me..sign me up.
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If you can't touch, you're at the wrong strip club.
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