I guess this is as good a place as any to post this...

[The Fixer]

Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!

Originally Posted by ****OnWheels

I/we do want them soon. Just not financially ready for them.

From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

[foff667]

Originally Posted by TPI Monte SS

Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!



From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

Thanks! And I totally agree, my wife & I were married in late 00 and finally had our first in early 02'...I was 26 & the wife was 28 at the time I believe. We figured "now is as good a time as ever" and also gave us time to plan out exactly when we want to have baby #2 and if we wanted baby #3.

Genie is pretty young though so she is in a very good position, James on the other hand....

[foff667]

Originally Posted by rscamaro73

Now's a good time to get snipped

Been well over 3 years for me....no issues Had a conversation during the procedure

Originally Posted by jims69camaro

yeah, me too, until the doc hit a part of the vas-deferens that was not numb... i almost kicked him and the pain was unlike anything i have ever felt before. but it's a good thing to get done. then, even if your swimmers are world class, they can't swim up inside her as the road doesn't go there anymore... [nh accent] can't get theh from he-ah [/nh accent]...

not only that, but then the libido skyrockets and there is no fear of pregnancy so the sex flows like water... oh, yeah, and it's been ten years for me. zero issues, although she checks for lumps and stuff that shouldn't be there.

Originally Posted by Untamed

x3 for being snipped.

Fortunately for me, the attending nurse was cute too.

Yeah its either her or I, we got a little while to make that decision though.

[The Fixer]

Originally Posted by foff667

Thanks! And I totally agree, my wife & I were married in late 00 and finally had our first in early 02'...I was 26 & the wife was 28 at the time I believe. We figured "now is as good a time as ever" and also gave us time to plan out exactly when we want to have baby #2 and if we wanted baby #3.

Good deal, that's the way!

Originally Posted by foff667

Genie is pretty young though so she is in a very good position, James on the other hand....

He's almost as old as I am! Hell, it's tough enough chasing a 2-year old at 34. James, you better think about it once you're feeling better!

[ShitOnWheels]

Originally Posted by TPI Monte SS

Congrats Bill, good luck with Baby #3!!



From my humble experience, if you wait for that, you'll never be "ready." I was 29, and my wife was 32 when we got married 6 years ago. While we were on our honeymoon, the bartender said to us, "So, are you gonna have kids?" We told him we wanted to wait a year or two and then start a family. So then he asked,
"Well, you're married, right?"
Us: "Yep."
Him: "Do you have a house?"
Us: "Yep."
"Do you have jobs?"
Us: "Yep."
"Then why wait?"

So, our son Anthony was born 9 months and 2 days after our honeymoon. We did wait 3 years to have Giada though, and I'm glad we did. Not for financial reasons, but just because everything else happened so quickly. My wife and I only dated a year, then got engaged. During our one-year engagement, we bought and fixed our house, and then got married. And then Anthony came along, so it was a really quick 3 years!

We would have them now. But as of today I don't have a job. In September I do my internship for my school psychology degree, and I don't get paid. As much as I"m trying to find something to pay the bills, my schedule makes it difficult to find something that will bring in what I was making. If I was still working we'd be starting to try now, literally.

[foff667]

Originally Posted by ****OnWheels

If I was still working we'd be starting to try now, literally.

Slightly too much information

Yeah I agree if you are a jobless hobo you probably shouldn't be having kids


JKING!!!!