that's why i've been keeping my opinion private. it's no one's business but hers how her site fares. and if she takes it personal, like i feel with anyone who takes things like this personal, it's her thing to deal with.
we have been playing nice. we will continue to play nice. i even altered my signature over there (even though i don't post much anymore, the posting i have made still carry my signature, which i changed along with the other site's signatures, to reflect my participation here). i don't see any personal attacks.