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OxForzaxoXo · 05-30-2009, 11:07 PM

Just a warning, this has nothing to do with cars...I just really need to know how much I'm in the wrong here.

Story time.

So, today was a Birthday party for a friend of mine. I ended up getting him in the face with cake a few times, but it was taken in good stride. He ended up soaking me from head to toe in water- to the point where I had to change clothes. I might as well have jumped in a pool I was so soaked. Even though I had no other clothes to drive home in, I had somewhere else to go after his house, and he got my new designer sneakers wet- I took it all without a word. I ended up changing into a pair of sweats and shirt he gave me, he was sitting with his new little.. girl toy/thing on his lap, and I was wringing my clothes out nearby. I ended up sneaking up on him and twisting my sweatshirt over his head so that he got a little wet, and splashed said girl/thing that was on his lap. She jumps up and gets all mad ( though she barely got any water on her.. nothing that wouldn't have dried within ten mintes ), and he looks at me and goes, "Are you a Fk'in idiot?" Not only was he dead serious, but it was to the point where not only did everyone fall quiet, but they all stared. I was mortified!

So, I gathered my stuff and left. I texted him about it and all he could really say was 'Oh, well she ( girl/thing ) got mad whether she got a little wet or not, it was a dumb move.' Minus the fact that I apologized immediately afterwards. I mean, I know I'm some to blame, but is it just me, or is was he really messed up for going off on me the way he did?

chrisfrom nj · 05-30-2009, 11:12 PM

you should have started knocking people out lol

NastyEllEssWon · 05-30-2009, 11:32 PM

whats good for the goose is certainly well enough for the gander. nice move btw...revenge is always fun

madness410 · 05-30-2009, 11:34 PM

was it his girlfriend? or are they dating? if so girls get madd jealous, keep that in mind she could have thought you were flirting with him.

but even so if he is a friend of yours he shouldnt be speaking to you like that and embarrassing you in front of everyone

Knipps · 05-30-2009, 11:37 PM

he most likely only got mad to keep her happy/tame. Not a big deal IMO

madness410 · 05-30-2009, 11:41 PM

i would think its a big deal being embarrassed...no friend should ever do that

98tadriver · 05-30-2009, 11:51 PM

sounds like you have a thing for him and you were jealous that he had a "girl toy/thing" on his lap.

Teds89IROC · 05-30-2009, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Knipps

he most likely only got mad to keep her happy/tame.

I agree with this but I also think it was wrong to belittle you like that in front of everyone.

NastyEllEssWon · 05-30-2009, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by 98tadriver

sounds like you have a thing for him and you were jealous that he had a "girl toy/thing" on his lap.

haha i refrained from making this comment. well perceived

98tadriver · 05-30-2009, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by NastyEllEssWon

haha i refrained from making this comment. well perceived

thats i what ive gathered from this story. Im not saying shes a bad person or anything, but it definately sounds like flirting. she just picked the wrong time to do that lol

the guy was definately a doosh for saying what he said too. he shouldve just laughed it off

OxForzaxoXo · 05-31-2009, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by 98tadriver

thats i what ive gathered from this story. Im not saying shes a bad person or anything, but it definately sounds like flirting. she just picked the wrong time to do that lol

the guy was definately a doosh for saying what he said too. he shouldve just laughed it off

I've got absolutely no feelings for him, he dated my best friend for almost four years, and was like an older brother to me. Nothing more than that.

And I'm not saying she's a bad person either. I apologized again as I was leaving and she was fine about it, it's him that's got me more aggrivated. And no, they aren't dating. She's only seventeen, she's not even legal! They've only been talking for maybe two weeks.

98tadriver · 05-31-2009, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by OxForzaxoXo

And I'm not saying she's a bad person either. I apologized again as I was leaving and she was fine about it, it's him that's got me more aggrivated. And no, they aren't dating. She's only seventeen, she's not even legal! They've only been talking for maybe two weeks.

im not talking about her, im talking about you not being a bad person/in the wrong lol

17 isnt bad, how old is he? i read somewhere that age of consent in nj is 16, so technically as long as the parents are cool with it, he's fine lol.

OxForzaxoXo · 05-31-2009, 12:24 AM

Oh lol, my bad.

He's 22.

BigAls87Z28 · 05-31-2009, 12:42 AM

17 is fair play.
Kind of a stupid move, but he should have kept his attitude in check.

CamaroJoe1987 · 05-31-2009, 12:46 AM

i would have done the ashley simpson rodeo dance

OxForzaxoXo · 05-31-2009, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by BigAls87Z28

17 is fair play.
Kind of a stupid move, but he should have kept his attitude in check.

Again though, first of all.. it's only water. And it wasn't a bucket full. It less than a hand full. There was honestly no reason for either of them to react the way either of them did. I mean- I suppose I don't entirely blame her for maybe being a little aggrivated, but it wasn't intentional. It wasn't smart for him to soak me from head to toe, either, but I suppose everyone handles things differently.

LTb1ow · 05-31-2009, 10:26 AM

Nope, your an ass, and are going to hell.

madness410 · 05-31-2009, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by 98tadriver

17 isnt bad, how old is he? i read somewhere that age of consent

ive heard that too but ive heard a bunch of other stuff. there are hott girls that i work with that are 17 but im going to pull a monty from waiting and wait till they are 18 to be on the safe side.

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Originally Posted by Shownomercy

Nope, your an ass, and are going to hell.

what the...?

LTb1ow · 05-31-2009, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by madness410

ive heard that too but ive heard a bunch of other stuff. there are hott girls that i work with that are 17 but im going to pull a monty from waiting and wait till they are 18 to be on the safe side.

what the...?

Yes. Exactly.

12secondv6 · 05-31-2009, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Shownomercy

Nope, your an ass, and are going to hell.

agreed

98tadriver · 05-31-2009, 11:18 AM

22 thats not bad at all. didnt elvis marry a 14yr old?

Ian · 05-31-2009, 02:54 PM

I don't think you were in the wrong, like you said, its just water. I can see how some people might think it was uncalled for, but I think those people are stupid and need to lighten up.

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Originally Posted by 98tadriver

22 thats not bad at all. didnt elvis marry a 14yr old?

you're thinking of jerry lee lewis I think

BigAls87Z28 · 05-31-2009, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Ian

I don't think you were in the wrong, like you said, its just water. I can see how some people might think it was uncalled for, but I think those people are stupid and need to lighten up.

you're thinking of jerry lee lewis I think

Aye, and his cousin too.
Goodness, gracious, great balls of fire...

GP99GT · 05-31-2009, 03:10 PM

**** it, do it live, who cares

Featherburner · 05-31-2009, 03:16 PM

I can't believe no one has said this, grow up!